The Room + The Ask

If You Feel Called to Host Rooms, Start Here

Over the last several years, I’ve hosted rooms at every scale.

Free social hours with wine from Costco and a handful of women. Ticketed gatherings with real venue costs and real risk. Conferences with hundreds of attendees and tens of thousands of dollars in expenses.

Some rooms were simple.
Some were complex.
All of them taught me something.

What I realized along the way is this:
most women do not struggle with vision. They struggle with clarity.

They know they want to gather people.
They feel the pull to create connection.
They sense that something meaningful happens when women are brought into proximity.

But they don’t always know:

  • what kind of room to build

  • what to charge

  • how to interpret feedback

  • how to decide without second-guessing

  • or what systems are actually required to look and feel legitimate

These courses exist to solve that.

Not with hype.
Not with formulas.
But with lived experience and practical frameworks.

What You’ll Find Here

There are two core courses:

The Room — a strategic playbook for designing gatherings that create real connection.

The Ask — a decision-making framework for pricing, reading surveys, and choosing what to build.

If you’re actively preparing to host and charge, there is also a bundled option that includes The Backend, a systems module that walks through the behind the scenes setup required to support paid rooms sustainably.

You can start with one.
Or you can build the full foundation.

Either way, this page is here to help you move from instinct to intention.

Who this is for

This is for women who:

  • Feel called to gather people but don’t want “networking energy”

  • Are thinking about launching events, dinners, or communities

  • Want collaboration over competition—always

  • Care more about trust than optics

  • Are building something long-term, not transactional

  • Want rooms that mean something

You do not need to be an extrovert.
You do not need to be a natural host.
You do not need a big audience.

You need intention.
And you can learn that.

The Room

Designing Gatherings That Create Real Connection

$67

The Room is a strategic playbook for understanding how rooms work, from small gatherings to large conferences.

This is not an event planning guide.
It is a framework for designing proximity, trust, and momentum.

Inside The Room, you’ll learn:

  • why networking is not the point

  • how to design proximity intentionally

  • how trust forms in small rooms

  • when rooms are ready to grow

  • how to hold intimacy at scale

  • what makes a room memorable

  • how to evaluate success beyond attendance or revenue

This course gives language to something many women already feel but haven’t articulated. If you’ve ever thought, “There’s a better way to gather people,” this course will help you understand what that way is.

The Ask

How to Price a Room, Read a Survey, and Decide What to Build

$97

The Ask is about decision-making.

It’s for the moment after inspiration, when questions start to surface:

  • What should I offer first?

  • What do I charge?

  • How do I interpret survey feedback?

  • How do I stop second-guessing myself?

Inside The Ask, you’ll learn:

  • how to separate interest from demand

  • how to read surveys without overreacting

  • how to price rooms without guessing or apologizing

  • why underpricing creates confusion and resentment

  • how much structure people actually want

  • how to make a clear decision when feedback conflicts

This course exists to help you stop justifying and start deciding.

The Bundle

For Women Actively Preparing to Host and Charge

$172

If you are not just deciding what to build, but actively preparing to host and charge for rooms, the bundle option is for you.

The Builder Bundle includes:

  • The Room (full course)

  • The Ask (full course)

  • The Backend (exclusive systems module)

The Backend

How to Set Up Systems That Support Paid Rooms

This bonus module covers the operational backbone behind hosting rooms that feel legitimate, organized, and sustainable.

Inside The Backend, you’ll learn:

  • what systems you actually need when starting

  • how to look legitimate without overbuilding

  • capturing emails from day one (even for free events)

  • using RSVP forms intentionally

  • sending confirmations and reminders with ease

  • tracking attendees, expenses, and ROI

  • evolving systems as rooms and costs scale

  • when it’s worth upgrading tools and when it’s not

This module is not about complexity.
It’s about protecting your energy and respecting your work.

The Backend is only available with the bundle.

Includes exclusive systems module not sold separately.

Final Note

You don’t need more rooms.
You don’t need to copy what’s already been done.
You don’t need permission.

You need clarity.
You need intention.
You need to trust that the way you want to gather people matters.

Choose What You Need

  • Start with The Room if you want clarity on how gatherings work

  • Start with The Ask if you’re stuck on pricing and decisions

  • Choose the bundle if you’re actively building and want systems that support you

You don’t need more content.
You need clarity you can stand behind.

That’s what this offers.

When you’re ready, you’re invited inside.